Alhaji Ibrahim Adisa Muhammed Toha, in this chat with Events and Parties Naija, poured encomiums on his adorable wife, Hajia Balikis Adunni Oyinlomo on her 50th birthday. He also revealed why he married his wife 18 years ago and how love, patience and endurance have kept their marriage intact.
How happy are you to see your wife at 50?
I give thanks to almighty Allah, it’s a thing of joy and happiness, I am extremely happy and short of words of appreciation to the almighty.
We all pray to become old, am so happy for her because we started with a lot of people but today some are nowhere to be found while some are passed on. I pray she live longer to see more beautiful years of prospects wrapped in Allah’s endless Rahman.
For how long have you been married?
To the glory of God, we’ve been together for over 18years aside from knowing each other five years before marriage.
What do you like most about her?
Adunni is my best friend, we are so strict with our closeness, we’re always together and we do not give room to people that can come in between us.
I love so many things about my wife, she’s always supportive, like the popular saying – “behind every successful man there is a woman.”
What do you say to her when you see her first in the morning?
We’re always happy seeing each other every morning and every other time of the day. As you may know, a flower blossoms at every rise of sun, this is what happens when we see each other every morning.
How easy is it for you to manage your marriage?
Love is the first thing in every union, then understanding follows, and the love we have for each other makes us to endure, sacrifice, and most importantly tolerate ourselves.
Also, our different backgrounds did not anyway affect our home and the love we have for each other makes it easy for us to manage our relationship.
Have you ever go out without telling your wife?
No, it has never happened. Even when one of us is out of the country, we still tell each other our movement.
What is the secret to a successful marriage?
Love, patience and endurance
Wish for your wife?
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Aduniade Oyinlomo, Happy Golden Jubilee. I pray you live long on earth with more success. No evil will come in between us and I also pray for our children to be successful in all their endeavours. AMEN!